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The other day, while sitting on the sidelines of #2’s basketball practice, #3 was completely disobeying my cardinal rule of playing with Mommy’s cell phone while age 4 and standing up.
I know, lots of kids like to play with cell phones, but since I’ve lost a plethora of similarly made objects in the past at the hands of small people who can’t keep their paws offa my stuff, I’m pretty adamant about this.
Except for when I’m otherwise engaged in a hilarious discussion with another parent (probably something to do with the fact that our sons are gangsta on the court).
And then, apparently, it’s totally cool if he not only sticky-palms my phone to death, but also snaps random photos of me busting a gut…
When I wrestled it away from him I very nearly deleted this (and the seven others) on the spot.
I mean because obviously I look insane. And ridiculous. And was it really that funny? Is anything? I doubt it.
But for some reason I kept it. Because I thought I sort of liked it?
Not enough to print it off and blow it up or anything (not only is guffawing not pretty on me, but it’s all blurry and cut off and my hands look like they belong to a quarterback), but enough to save it.
And, I guess, share it with the world the 18 of you who read this blog.
Because, as much as I’d love to deny it, that picture is SO me.
Guffawing my face off. In public. While sort of ignoring my kid.
Totally me.
I make it my goal to live as happily as humanly possible. And, in my poorly punctuated book that means I get to laugh heartily, smile widely, and pretend my child is not picking his nose during a basketball game being annoying.
The full fledged happiness doesn’t happen every day, and some times I sorta feel like it’s never gonna happen again, but I try.
I smile a lot (I’ve heard what frown lines do to one’s face in old age and I’d love to have that perpetually smiling face that Julia Roberts rocks so hot); both genuinely and inappropriately.
And I laugh just as much if not more.
Loudly, and sometimes inappropriately (but I try to make my inappropriate laughs more snickering-behind-my-man-hands-to-block-my-shame-face then full out bustin’ a gut as seen here).
All I can say is life is funny (not always ha-ha funny, and sometimes just shoot-me-now funny, but still, funny).
The Dudes are funny (but usually only when they aren’t even trying to be).
And, seriously, way I see it, I’m pretty dang funny too.
The photo proves it y’all.
*Today’s post was inspired by Mama Kat and her awesome Writer’s Workshop without which I would probably be WAY less creative come Thursdays.









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Joy!!!
Well I love it!
Thanks! I guess it’s one of those things for me: the more I look at it, the more I like it too. Aside from the weird parts I already mentioned:)
I have always maintained that a day without laughter wasn’t worth getting out of bed for. You look so happy in that photo, and that is what makes it great. That’s how you want your kids to remember you, not the shouting, screaming banshee that we are all capable of, but never admit to.
I’m having a not-worth-getting-out-of-bed-sort-of-day. But, I’m sure the germs causing my eye to ooze something fierce and my nose to run so vehemently I’m sitting here with a piece of toilet paper shoved in it is to blame for that.
Great photo! I think it is an honest photo of who you are too. It actually doesn’t look bad like you mentioned. Smiling and laughter makes others seem more beautiful to me instead of with some grumpy sour-puss face. Love it. Thanks for sharing.
Agreed! My non-smiling face makes me look mean and scary apparently. That’s why I always try to smile. Don’t want to freak people out!
Honestly? This is awesome. You’ll look at this photo and remember how happy you were/are.
P.S. I don’t think you look insane OR ridiculous in that picture. You have an awesome smile!
Thanks! I guess when I think about where I was while cackling my face off I sorta wonder what they innocent bystanders must’ve been thinking. And I distinctly recall that everyone else (save the person I was laughing with) was completely silent. Best behavior for me at basketball practice this week!
I love this picture because you smiling so hard made me smile hard.
I agree with Arnebya. It’s hard NOT to smile when you look at that picture because you look SO happy and that makes it a totally awesome picture. Those candid shots are sometimes the best!
Its a way awesomer (my auto correct had a horrific time with that word btw) picture than the ones I snap and send the man with the captions like “you’re on the potty line”
I have a bad habit of taking pictures of my goofy face whilst taking a potty break at work and texting them to him
. Super fabulous shot!!
Visiting from Mama Kat’s today
That is fantastic! I love it. You made me giggle too.
My husband’s favorite photo of me is one where I’m laughing. In my wedding dress. With a giant spoonful of spinach dip about to land on my plate. I’m all about the party food.
I think this photo is awesome. You just look so happy, and that is a good look on anyone.
You look fantastic in this picture! I love catching happiness in a photo. Way better than a forced smile. Any day that includes a guffaw is a good day!
Unique, real and happy come to mind…
It also helps when someone you hardly know that blog stalks you makes a complete fool of themselves at a blog conference by not recognizing a movie star. Not that I would know anything about that.
I try to smile and laugh as much as possible too. Why not enjoy life as much as you can??
I enjoyed this post!! What a treat to have fun parents with whom to spend those interminable hours on the bleachers!
Love, reader #18.
I absolutely love the photo, and even more that you own your happy.
I love this story of your son snapping the photo! What a great “real” photo.
I think the best photos are the candid ones. They always tell a good story.
I love the photo. Such a great smile…happy face.
You are one happy, funny gal. I know because I’ve hung out with you. I’m SO happy yo kept this one!!
Love this, and aside from the great smile I’m also a bit jealous of the fact that you are sitting. Mine are all littler than yours so when we go to my teen’s basketball practices I spend the whole time going up and down the bleachers and up and down the bleachers, hoping they will get tired (which never happens).
Oh goodness…I’m so glad you didn’t delete it..it’s perfect! I love that it captures you just the way I imagine you to be!